Its great way to stay in touch! no wonder! but my addiction to fb made me think while i was driving back home .A reality check ran through me.I realized that fb was so essential for me that no one else other than people who are on my list on fb are my world. and i had conveniently kicked out the rest, just because they are not a profile click away.
I mean now we have n number of modes of communication existing subliminally ,unlike the old days where efforts were visible when it came to staying in touch by writing letters.Its so easy now if we try in our age to stay in touch but we choose to ignore. don't we know we have the numbers of at least 2 to 3 people always in our calling list whom we want to call and get back and update as they choose not be on fb. but eventually we never end up calling them up.
My friendship with few has faded away, and somewhere I blame it my new found fondness to old acquaintance who randomly pop up to my profile, comment, view,like and go away. I am missing the essentially of the real friends in the name of being in touch with every body!you go like Kho!and you touch and we are there.Its funny that I am loosing more because of fb than find new!!!!
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We are informing every one but communicating with a few ,the technology pushes us into the crowd ,& once we are through with our customary hallos ,exchange innate lines ,we move on .
It is almost like in a festival where we talk to many but our intimate communication remains with a few.
Personally I feel one who has thousands friends will have no real friend ,it is humanly impossible to to be involved deeply with so many ,such people are always on the look out for audience ,they amass friends like they do wealth ,it is the numbers that give them a high not the quality.
Give me my core friends ,i can spend a lifetime on an island,,,,put me in a crowd I will die .
I tottaly agree with you , i wold spend as much time as i want with people i know i am close to. but with all this hi's and bye's anything just above that , some where irritates us.
But all this has become a part and important , so much so that what was important the real relationship have taken a backseat. or probably no seat at all
How real relations can take back seat ??
Hi's n byes never come in the way of real relations .
It is the guilt ,without any basis ,that forces us to compare relations .
Life is very beautiful ,you have got to experience all kinds of relations ,events or whatever without any guilt.
If Nature or lets say God wanted us to remain with our closest ones only ,HE would have made us kangroos ,keeping closeones always under the belly .
I dont want to keep my dearest ones always before my eyes ,---it is a negation of life ---no matter how deep I love my infant ,I cannot smother him with my kisses.
If I am with my friend ,he is the most important for me ,he is not responsible for my relations with my closeones .It is probably the guilt---an unnecessary guilt we carry for no reason that we are forced to compare .
well close ones.. are always ... i agree with you, but the ones which were great and would have have turned into close ones eventually just fade away when you are not in constant touch . my point here is...if you are the lazy one...or a reluctant one...you mite have let it go... well that you.. you are talking about yourself that you wudnt gud you make efforts thats what i am saying the efforts are required
to keep going to stay in touch...but if you dont make efforts and only stay in touch through facebook etc.. i noe its your fault ...but thats about it you end up loosing great friends..
''If you are the lazy one ...or a reluctant one .....''',again you are passing a moral judgement on those who dont want to do hi's n byes much .It depends on the priority .If staying in touch with all is your priority ,do it ,but without feeling superior to those who dont .
By & large ,behind this notion is a paradigm of Extrovert and Introvert ,and a presumption that extroverts are good & introverts bad .
Leaving extremes in both ,extroverts relate to outward behaviour of people while introverts to the inner n deep side .
Extroverts are gregarious while introverts are reflective n intense .
Thats about it .
Neither is superior .
If you always shoot off from certain notions as truth ,you reach a false conclusions .
By the way , face-book puts no responsibility even if you have 1000 friends ,face to face does .
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