"comment" and that to a good one, that appreciates you(a true one dat is).
what does it do to you??makes u feel happy right.
But does it add value to an already completed task , does it take you to an altogether diffrent level of looking at your own work?
if yes , you then happen to seek a kind of a report card for your task ,after you have put your heart and soul into it .as if you do not rate your own work and have no expectations from yourself...and so this particular pithy comment decides the fate of your sedulous travail.
but on the very next moment for the same endevour, u get critisicm or a harsh disapproving comment , where does that take you .huh!!!
you move like a pendulam , swaying from one end to another ....specially when u do have your own sense of judgement, but sadly you dont wana agnize.
what "they" think of it "rates" you , "grades" you.
it decides where you efforts stand (as if you were clueless).
i might sound over confident in the brakets but m trying to get under the spotlight the scintilla of belief that u possess , which you time and again try and suppress when it comes to accepting comments.
some would say its healthy, critisizm is gud it makes you thnk , reflect upon and improve.True. but what about the times it boggs u down and no matter how much u try it does not let u get up?(another psychological aspect to see this one would be-"its how u take it")
but my purpose here is not to defend or disagree to the above cases (no comments plz), but it centainly is to not let u act like a crazy ball in the hands of people who after the whole melodrama can make things go upside down by thier sententious comments. they can throw u in some corner or at the same time make you rebound bak and land on a throne.
change is gud , grow , make yourself.....do NOT let yourself be moulded(like a clay).
opinions are gud . Make them!! but dare NOT let opnions make you.
coz u are your best judge!
