Its funny when i look back in time and see myself as a person who thought of every situation from the hindsight and therefore ended up being skeptical of its affirmative occurrence.I wouldn't say it was completely a negative thought process in action but yes, the fear of the inevitable was more than the brighter side. Life was the way it had always been moving.any change was welcome but with fear.
changes always mean adjustments, without adjustments they can not be incorporated.There was alot of hue and cry about the unacceptable will be adopted and how our life from somewhere would go back to nowhere.
Its amazing that how once we come out of the situation we realize that we are so lucky that we cant see the future, if we could, then we might not make the efforts we made for it to occur.
What kills me most now to see myself as cynic who cried in anticipation of how worse the future would be.who wasted so many minutes of the life clock to think how bad thing would get, because they are "just" going to be different.We assumed its gonna be difficult, we assumed its gonna be bad, why dont we ever think...the change might be good and for the better.
I see my self be some i wanted to be, i also see the voids of inexplicable immaturities i spend half my life reasoning, fill up gradually.
Tougher discussions are smoother now and the repeated explanation of the facts is not required.
Was just reading one of my earlier posts....
http://sonaltewari.blogspot.com/search?updated-max=2010-04-23T21%3A34%3A00-07%3A00&max-results=20
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............its fun.. its interesting this is no piece of advice.. i can afford to do this . i m privileged
but sadly i m no more " Planned and Orchestrated"
but its different....
tell me something i will listen to it.
give me something i will take it.
show me something and i bet i wouldn't be amused...!!! "
I am giving away the self which used to take what you give me. I can say No!
and i have tried it...Its a different feeling to take your decisions, its a different felling to do what you want to do...without much consultations!
My mistakes are now mine.. i have already made few...but the difference is I am proud of making them.no one knows i made them...to tell me later"See I told you to do it the other way". All pros and cons were mine, the pencil and paper were in my hand. The risk was mine. The actions and paths i would take are mine and i am happy to report i shall be solely responsible with no regrets.
Thank god i write and can always go back and check on me!- The Change.
8 comments:
nicely written yaar...
but wat i feel is that...
had u been offered an assistantship instead of a part time job...u wud have gone for it...readily...and wudnt have given any thot...
but wat had happened was...u had been offered another part tym job...the change was minor....and hence...thot had to be given....
it cant exactly be called as "being negative"....but it can be "weighin ur options..to find out which one wud be better" or it can also be "being cautious"....not alwaz do negative thots lead to negative results...
i completely agree with the last para....sahi hai sonal....kamaal ka likthi ho aap...
this was written before the event!
and what you are mentioning happened after that.
anyway more or less the situation is same but yet is very different from before.
i kno dat re...it was just an example....
This is a very good piece!!! The people around you will teach you how to be skeptical. I will always tell you to weight your risks and take a leap forward.
Just an afterthought ... in a way it is good to deal with any situation by thinking about the worst case scenario right? Doesn't it help you be prepared in case the worst case scenario occurs. I always do that but would not call myself a skeptic.
Shravan i agree with you hands down! What was trying to cover here is something very different. I am talking about the natural tendency of a person to fear the change.. and fret about it! and specially with change, comes the negative part of accepting the change and speculating "is it for the better".
I agree when you say Doubts are important, but they should not always stop you from taking risks!
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