He takes him like an elder brother .He is not pampered like an only child in any family , he not jealous or unnoticed , like how it feels when you become an elder one.
He is mature and he reacts responsibly . He loves taking care , he notices people . He has these values inculcated in him not by spoon feeding but by his own learning, learning from his immediate surroundings . He has never shown a spurge of jealousy or questioned the attention of his parents as since the time of his birth , even though, he has been the 1st child of the parents, he has received the love and was always taken care of , but he , has been the 2nd sibling of the family therefore he is not alone.
Since that very day this child appreciates the existence of the 1st baby family member and for him an elder brother !Their dog!
The irony is when the child was very young the dog took care of him , played with him and the child never missed his parents love nor did he get pampered by overt attention but now when he has grown up a little he takes care of the dog his elder brother , instilling in himself , a sense of maturity , he feels the pain when the dog is ill or sad.
He conscious of his existence and havoc sometimes the dog creates at home and scolds him for that . Automatically I have observed the child growing up without anyone else's nettling . He holds responsibility of the dog's food habits and walks and that makes his life and schedule quite disciplinarian .
Even though he knows he is younger and relishes the pedestal he has gotten at such an early age in his own family.
The best way to groom your child is to make him grow with a dog in the house, its death is the biggest lesson he would eventually learn and will be ready for the world outside . Being Humane and being shockproof . It will make him what today we keep endlessly trying to make our children , a better person!
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Maybe thats just me but I didnt understand anything...
all is good , but i am afraid the child migght not learn bhau bhau
I agree with Shubham :P
when you would pet a dog you would know.. and understand
It is not the responsibility of Life to teach you ,it is yours to learn.
If Life teaches ,everyone will be similar .But life does not teach .It is you who choose to learn.This is the reason ,people draw different lessons & conclusions from life .
Dog is just a small part of your life .
A dog in a family has different relations with each member .
Each member has relation depending upon his own attitudes.
A caring person will be caring for a dog too .
Aperson who does not resent the demands of others will not resent demands of a dog too .
A person who is playful will be playful with his dog also.
It is your attitudes that determine your relation with a dog .
It is up to you ,,,,thats all
teacher teaches the same way in class but everychild is different . parents might end you just teaching the didactic way . my point here is circumstances created and your pedestal at what you are makes you learn .
And when you say its you who make the relation with dog just as you are .!! this case is possible when you are what you are laready mabe you have spent those years of maximum learning "childhood". either you are at the teenage or adulthood then of course you would act the way you are .
but when new born child already has dog in the house before he came to the family then as he learns gradauly the position of father and acts differently with father .. he acts differently with the dog. but being with a dog its a unique experience specially at young age . the actions and reactions the situations make you what you eventually become thats why it is said family hold very important role in what person you become in life
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