I tried doing that and i was quite shocked at my own outcome . I started my whole process of relating to reality with thinking what is the importance of each of them in language .Yes , one is to give a break , a pause and another is to end it all , to be precise .Very similar to their usage in language is their role in day to day life . You sleep every day what would call it , a comma or a full stop , you make goal and work towards it every day , and once you achieve it you stop working towards it what would you call it ?
There are a lot of things in our lives which are in a state of a comma , that how we think they are , but some how we realize sooner or later they have taken a shape of full Stop.they are so many things that we keep pending for future , thinking we shall take a break and start all over again , but gradually their existence washed away , and they are never started . while there are instances and moments that we have accepted that will never come back again , and have ended for ever , but they never seem to go , People who keep influencing your lives no matter how much you want them to go , they keep coming back it seems there is no full stop to them in your life .
But the point i wanted to make is very different , by now i would have made you agree that these to punctuaationn marks are ite importanat in your lives as much as they are in English Language.
Just as you can understand a English sentence in a incorrect way ,by misplaced comma and full stop marks your life can totally take a different shape you "full stop" a never ending task .
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Commas or full-stops are our own decisions,it is we who choose to call something as comma ---in relations or events---or a full-stop.
As for relations ,'spacing is a must in togetherness'---you have got to have your own space even in deepest relations.Never feel the burden of making someone happy ---no one can do it ---since it is his/her duty to become happy ,similarly no can you make you happy since it is your responsibility to be happy.
What we all need in a relation is a Sincere Interraction ---thats all.
As for events ,put a comma or even a full-stop ,decision is entirely yours ---never feel it is forced on you ,even if it appears so ,it is not since decision is yours to say 'yes' when you have the choice to say 'no' ---and in the process if you take a view that you are making others happy ,think again & think hard ,it is not within your powers .
If events overwhelm you ,create dilemmas in you ,take a break & renew yourself ,since if you do something just to fulfill others expectations ,you will end up deceiving two---them & you .
Do not let relations or events get the better of you .
Life is beautifull,it is full of of serendipity--as long as you remain sincere to both ---events & relations---cut out what you dont require .
I have gone by the 'existential angst' in what you have written .May be it is not related to what you had in mind .
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